Despite the restriction, my Girlfriend and i before are very happy. I find deeper connection en sensitivity in same-sex relationship. You have very common sensibilities and interests but that also does not mean that both of you cannot be diverse. So on one hand, theres the comfort and nurturing filing of being so familiar with one another, but on the other, theres the exhilation and excitement that your also two different individuals.
And i questioned my identity a lot. But that is what makes my character and principles all the more secure. You really have to be sure of yourself to withstand prejudice and malice present society. What Lesbians go through that perhaps many heterosexuals do not deep questioning, not just of there sexuality, but there indentity in general.
You know it's not a "phase" because like love, it's not just some fleeting emotion that comes and goes: it's a will, a stand a determination that you constantly choose. Ang daya naman kung phase lang iyon, tapos the other Girl will feel na nagamit lang siya science experiment lang siya. Take the time to get to know your real preferences and identities first, that way, your not being unfair to the other person and your sure to have a more stable and sincere relationship.
Theres also lee role playing - whos the guy, who should be doing this or that. You just do what you feel more comfortable doing. Hindi lang porke't babae ka, you should be the more nurturing and understanding one in the relationship; babae kayo pareho, ro you strive for balance. You try to be more nurturing, but at the same time strong and rational in the relationship; Hindi lang yung isang side m yung dinedevelop mo, but both musculine/feminine aspects.

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Hey you know this blog had some deep thought into it. and your right in what you said. I kno becuase one of my best friends is like that...
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